Sunday, April 20, 2008


Ever in your life have you unintentionally committed any misconduct or made your love one feel sad because of you and then confess it in front of them?

In this world the most difficult thing to do is to confess your misconduct or wrongdoing. Confession is always a weakness. The grave soul keeps its own secrets, and takes its own punishment in silence. We don't pay heat to this matter most of our lives and feel the burden of it time and again. Though its the other matter, we may not agree this when asked, but we know it our heart of heart this is the truth. Many of us are afraid as if we show ourselves  to the other ,the consequences may come back as worse dreams or as creed. Time and again we are reminded by ourselves to do it, all we do is ignore the point and the time comes when we get overburden with such acts, we feel lonely and dishearten because we haven't spoken our heart to anyone about it. So, this is a normal phenomenon in today's world .We only confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no big ones.

Confession is considered as sacred doing by all religions. Even the great peoples qoutes,

"Confession of errors is like a broom which sweeps away the dirt and leaves the surface brighter and clearer. I feel stronger for confession." , "I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps."- Mahatma Gandhi

"The confession of evil works is the first beginning of good works." - St. Augustine

Confession makes us grow spiritually. Once we confessed ourselves we are enlightened to a different beautiful world of self reliance. As the burden is removed , we open ourselves to a new life of no regrets .

So, anytime you commit a lapse in your work, do confess yourself before its late!!!

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

When one becomes a bit social!!!

Ask yourself what you felt the last time you help a stranger or even known person unintentionally. Some fell good factor had arisen in you, no matter for how long or short interval of time this lasted. Now came back, now might be thinking why I wanted I asked that!! Well, sometimes it just happens that your unintentional help seems to draw an attraction of the other person without your acknowledgement.

It happened about eight months ago when I thought why not ask my classmates to spread any news related to placement and academics through me via SMS. Since my SMSes were free, it certainly can be done. So as any information used to approach me regarding placement and all I used to 'Broadcast' it to all classmates. As months past I think people get used to it and regarded me as 'Khabari' (though I don't used to pay any heat to these words). They seemed to be dependent on my sms for even small information and I was also active for it. Sometimes I used to think why am I doing it when no one seems to thank me , then an instant inner voice was to recoil saying ' why are you so desperate for it'. Ha ha!! It's the human tendency to seem acknowledgement for his 'good work'. Anyways on 31st March I decided to put an end to this service. Since it was 31st evening many classmates think I fooling them for April fool!!

Now many people say why not I extend it further to the last of my engg. , but I don't its necessary. With April being approach no more information will needed to be spread …… moreover , no one need my SMS now at the 11th hour , as everything or last semester have approached their doorstep. From my side all classmates might have been benefited and have some nice moments in it.

With the end of a small and tiny service of mine , I too feel that one should have always try to have a flavour of social services be it small or big it doesn't matters , what matters is the returned feeling you get from it ( be it in person or hidden). It always pays you back in life.